Do you ever get unsolicited advice from people that makes you wonder if they think you are stupid? Or like you just woke up one day and said, "I'm going to adopt a baby" and just put your name on a list on a wall somewhere? That you didn't do a dilligent ammount of research when you chose the agency you did, or the adoption path that you chose, or go through an entire process of getting ready for things and had meetings with experts. Just because they didn't wittness your journey prior to adoption, they want to make sure that you aren't forgetting how important something is?
I just want to say "Do you think I was born yesterday? That I haven't read books on adoption and how "This" works and what is important? Can you not be the "Expert" on educating oneself and just be happy? This is not your problem to solve! I am not a problem to solve. Can you just stop projecting your insecurities onto me? I am fine! I am confident, I am happy. Just be happy with me all right?!!"